How to Get Your Child into a Bedtime Routine

September 12, 2017 | Updated August 1, 2018

Dad and daughter reading a bedtime story in bed

Is your child bouncing off the walls? Strangely enough, the cause might be a lack of sleep. Kids always seem to fight giving in to sleep (has an eight-year-old ever said, “Mom, I think it’s my bedtime”?) Instead, their exhaustion tends to manifest in different ways, which on the surface, might seem unrelated to their sleep patterns.

Over-tired kids might pick a fight with a classmate, fail to answer a question correctly during class, or become hyperactive. While there might be other factors at work, sleep deprivation could be a key player.

Research has shown that irregular and late bedtimes have a major influence on kids’ behavior. Conversely, structured bedtimes and bedtime routines help children function better in their day-to-day.

What should a good bedtime routine look like? Most importantly, it should be consistent. When you pick a bedtime that works for your family (keeping in mind that kids ages 7-13 need between 8 and 11 hours of sleep each night), stick with that bedtime every day, even on weekends.

If your child seems to put up a fight each night, try setting an alarm to announce that it’s time to start the winding down process. Some families find it helpful for a “third party” to announce that it’s pajama time.

This method helps neutralize the situation because it separates the time of day from a person saying that it’s time for bed. The winding down process could include changing into pajamas, brushing teeth, and reading a bedtime story.

If your child wants a nighttime snack, try something that’s a mix of protein and carbs. This combo helps people fall asleep while maintaining a stable blood sugar throughout the night.

Lastly, when you leave your child’s room after saying goodnight, don’t go back if they call for you. This step can be a tough habit to adopt, but it’s important for showing your child that bedtime is non-negotiable. Hold your ground and they’ll learn that fighting you on this one won’t work.

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Nierenberg, Cari (2013 October 14). The Secret to a Well-Behaved Child: Regular BedtimeRetrieved from https://www.livescience.com/40390-kids-behavior-regular-bedtime.html
Parents Magazine (2017 August). How to Develop Bedtime Routines. Retrieved from http://www.parents.com/baby/sleep/schedule/develop-bedtime-routines/